Kadang-kadang bila kita bekerja kita ada 'sajak', 'puisi', 'frasa' atau 'ayat' sebagai alasan atau guna-guna pada bos kita....Some words and phrases are often used to buy time, avoid giving answers, and escape commitment. ayat yang selalu digunakan :
1."Try"
"Try" is a weasel word. "Well, I'll try," some people say. It's a cop-out. They're just giving you lip service, when they probably have no real intention of doing what you ask. Remember what Yoda says to Luke Skywalker in "Star Wars": "Do or do not--there is no try." Take Yoda's advice. Give it your all when you do something. And if it doesn't work, start over.
Dalam bahasa melayu---'Tengok la cik Klu sempat'--->Bermakna ckp kt bos kita lam kata len..'X de sempatnya saya nk buat cik, jd jangan berharap la'...hehehe...supaya bos x memberi harapan yang tinggi...excuse yang kadang terpaksa kena buat tp x ikhlas n mmg niat x nk buat pun...hohoho
2."Whatever"
This word is a trusted favorite of people who want to dismiss you, diminish what you say, or get rid of you quickly. "Whatever," they will say as an all-purpose response to your earnest request. It's an insult and a verbal slap in the face. It's a way to respond to a person without actually responding. When you say "whatever" after another person has said his or her piece, you have essentially put up a wall between the two of you and halted any progress in communicating. It's a word to avoid.
Used frequently klu da menyampah, bosan atau muak dengan kerja...Biasanya diluahkan dalam keadaan marah...lam bahasa pasarnya...'apa-apa lah'...
3."Maybe" and "I don't know"
People will sometimes avoid making a decision--and hide behind words and phrases like "maybe" and "I don't know." There's a difference between legitimately not knowing something and using words like these as excuses. Sometimes during a confrontation, people will claim not to know something or offer the noncommittal response "maybe," just to avoid being put on the spot. If that seems to be the case, ask, "When do you think you will know?" or "How can you find out?" Don't let the person off the hook so easily.
Bos aku yang dulu sangat hebat bila masuk bab 'i dont know' ni...klu depan ktorg sebagai kuli2 bawahan bukan men lagi dia 'I know-I know'....depan bos besar mencicit 'I dont know'....pastu biasanya dibuat oleh org yang x nk pikul tanggungjwb bla projek-kerja tu x jd...maknenye bukan dia yang buat keputusan tu..yang kena blame aku jugak...haish...mcm laju je mulut aku ni nk ckp kt dia 'bl mase encik know ntah'...sume i dont know je...
4."I'll get back to you"
When people need to buy time or avoid revealing a project's status, they will say, "I'll get back to you," and they usually never do. If people say they will get back to you, always clarify. Ask them when they will get back to you, and make sure they specify the day and time. If they don't, then pin them down to a day and time and hold them to it. If they won't give you a day or time, tell them you'll call in a day or week and follow up. Make sure you call and get the information you need.
Ni paling aku suke...terutamanya bl main-con da tepon nk mintak kje...'T, sya update balik eh'...hehehe....mesti main-con cam nk ketuk je kepala aku....bl aku jd main-con pun menyampah mendengar 'jab...ag sya hantar'...pergh.....x pun berurusan atau tepon atau jmpa department kerajaan...terutamanya masa nk mintak data....aku igt ag time student dlu....mcm bola ditendang ke ting 3 pastu tg.6 pastu tg.3 balik...kawan ni berpeluh dah...data x dpt2....yang dpt 'i'll get back to u'
5."If" .
Projects depend on everyone doing his or her part. People who use "if" are usually playing the blame game and betting against themselves. They like to set conditions, rather than assuming a successful outcome. People who rely on conditional responses are fortifying themselves against potential failure. They will say, "If Bob finishes his part, then I can do my part." They're laying the groundwork for a "no fault" excuse and for not finishing their work.
There are always alternatives, other routes, and ways to get the job done. Excuse makers usually have the energy of a slug and the spine of a jellyfish. You don't want them on your team when you're trying to climb Mt. Everest.
Bila mendengar bos aku ckp if je aku da berdebar2....bermakna aku kna buat dua paper work atau alternatif..meaning double work-double time-double stuck kt dpn pc-----plus double anger...dia yang x leh wt kputusan aku lak yang byk kje....haiyooo
6."Yes, but . . ." .
This is another excuse. You might give your team members suggestions or solutions, and they come back to you with "Yes, but . . ." as a response. They don't really want answers, help, or solutions. You need to call the "Yes, but . . ." people out on their avoidance tactic by saying something like "You know, Jackie, every time I offer you a suggestion you say, 'Yes, but . . . ,' which makes me think you don't really want to solve this problem. That's not going to work. If you want to play the victim, go right ahead, but I'm not going to allow you to keep this up." After a response like that, you can be assured that the next words you hear will not be "Yes, but . . ."!
Bila bekerja kt opis br ni...ini plak yang bakal menjadi perkataan utama aku...hohoho....'Da double check..tapi klu ade salah tu maaf le...hohoho...leh lakan
7."I guess . . ."
This is usually said in a weak, soft-spoken, shoulder-shrugging manner. It's another attempt to shirk responsibility--a phrase that is muttered only when people half agree with you but want to leave enough leeway to say, "Well, I didn't really know. . . . I was only guessing." If you use this phrase, cut it out of your vocabulary.
Bab sya rasa ni payah ni....nk ckp tp takut....heehehhe..kadang2 diguna masa nk menyalahkan org len gak atau x nk bertangungjawab atas kesalahan korang....'Saya rasa saya da check tapi ada salah lagi'.....x sure la tu oittt
8."We'll see . . .".
How many times did we hear our parents say this? We knew they were buying time, avoiding a fight or confrontation, or really saying no. It's better to be decisive and honest by saying, "I need more information. Please present your case or send me the data--both pro and con--so I can make an informed decision." That way, the interested parties will contribute to an in-depth, well-researched "verdict."
Ex-Bos aku suka sebut menda ni klu ckp pasal bonus atau nek gaji.....bukan men liat lg...dari aku mula masuk kje...sampai ke aku brenti kje.....'kita tgk la dlu thun ni ade projek ke x'....'kita tgk la dlu performance awak camne'..plakkk....'Kita tgk la dlu yerp....sama je ngan term i try td...tp yang ni mmg gila2 x ikhlas nk buat n x nk bagi...ceh...harapan palsu
apa-apa pun hepi working guys ^.^
